On the wings of life
People say that what we do in life echoes in eternity. But do our jobs really define us? Tara thinks creating a balance between the job and the private life can sometimes be complicated.
As she works as an independent escort in Dundee, she reveals this job’s both positive and negative sides.
Q: Could you tell us something about yourself? What are your hobbies and interests?
My name is Tara, I am 24 years old and I live in Dundee. My hobbies are literature, music and fashion.
Q: Mention three perfect gift ideas.
I am in love with Armani bags, so this would be the perfect gift idea for me. Jewelries or clothes are also good gift ideas. Anyway, any kind of gift is welcomed, for I am not picky.
Q: What would be the perfect date like?
If we are talking about the private life, any date is perfect, as long as you have the right person besides you. The perfect date as an escort supposes a chemistry between the client and the escort, which makes the conversation flow.
Q: What do you appreciate most about your job?
This is not an easy job, as most people think, but it provides escorts with good money and some unique experiences. The good money and the freedom of choice – these are the best sides.
Q: Could you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
All I know is that I was very nervous. I did not know the person I was going to date, or what to do in his presence. In the end, I just acted naturally and everything went all right. The boy just needed someone honest to talk with, about his problems.
Q: How much time do you spend preparing for a date?
It depends. I need at least an hour to get ready for a common date with a new client, and up to four hours, if I visit the beauty salon first. If a normal girl spends much time to get ready, imagine what an escort has to do before she meets a client. Your reputation is actually build on the first impression you make.
Q: What qualities does someone need to possess in order to become a successful escort?
The qualities any girl should have to become a successful escort are a hot body, great language skills, diplomacy, tact, intuition, wide general knowledge, a strong motivation and much more! As I said, being an escort is not an easy job. What do you do, when you date a smart guy initiates a conversation on politics, and you do not have the slightest ideas about what he is talking about?
Q: What is your daily schedule like? How often do you work per week?
I work a lot. Whenever a client needs me, we schedule a meeting as soon as possible. When men request such services, it means they need you at that particular time, not three days later. So, I do not have working days or working hours. I generally date one client a day or one client every two days.
Q: Describe the best and the worst call-girl experience.
Two months ago, a client asked to meet me at his address. I went there and everything went wrong. He spat on me, talked ugly to me and, and many other things. That was the worst call-girl experience.
The most beautiful one was with an Italian client. He cooked pasta for me and we talked the entire night about the differences between our cultures. It was a great experience!
Q: Do you have a list with regular clients? If yes, do you see them more often than you see new clients?
Yes, any escort has her ‘regulars’. These are the men who visit you the most, who crave your company the most and make the impossible possible just to see you. I have three respectful gentlemen who do this for me. They are my dearest companions!
Q: Have you ever fallen in love with one of your clients? Have you ever been jealous of your regular clients or felt ‘cheated’? If so, what did you do?
As an escort, you fall in love with any client who treats you better than you think you deserve. Each man who can see how you are, beyond your job, is the type of person who makes you fall in love with him.
Q: What do you prefer: incall or outcall services?
I do not see why I should choose between these two. They are the same for me. Whether you work incall or outcall, you have to face the same challenges, so I do not have a favorite type of service.
Q: What sort of client do you want to see again?
I look for my perfect guy in every client I meet. If he is respectful, self-confident and funny, I definitely want to see him again. To sum it up, he should just have the ability to make me laugh and treat me like a lady.
Q: Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
Ten years is such a long time, that I can barely see myself somewhere. In ten years’ time, I will turn 34, which means I will probably have a family, maybe a kiddo and my own business; or, maybe I will have nothing of these things, and I will still be a successful escort. We will see.
