Hiring an escort can be a tricky thing, check out 15 things to do before hiring an escort
People hire escorts for different reasons. However, there are some important tips you must take into account before requesting such services.
1. Think about what you want
First of all, you must know exactly why you need her services. In this way, not only you will know if she fits you, but you’ll give her the chance to be honest with you and tell you if she’s in.
2. Look for the perfect girl
After you are sure you really want to hire an escort, you must look for the right one. One of the best place to find an escort is online; there are millions of websites advertising such services so you have great chances to find a right escort. The perfect advice is: don’t worry, take your time and follow your instincts.
3. Pay attention at her advert
Read carefully escort’s advertisement, provider’s website, her etiquette page (if she has one) and any other useful information. These might help you prevent and manage difficult situations.
4. Think about legality
One other important aspect is to know the laws in your country and make sure you aren’t breaking any. You don’t want to have surprises, do you?
5. Call and arrange a meeting
Even if this is something they don’t teach you at school, calling an escort and arranging a meeting is an extremely important step in getting what you want. Even if you never called for an escort service before, you must remember the same rules you usually use for an efficient act of communication. Be coherent, avoid ambiguity and obscurity of expression, be brief, be relevant and be orderly!
6. Control yourself
You must know escorts deal with all kind of persons. This is why you have to control yourself when you first talk on the phone so she doesn’t get scared. If you use to talk loud, make sure you control the pitch of your voice. Don’t raise your voice and be as respectful as you can.
7. Leave a good impression on the phone
Make sure you leave a good impression on the phone. Introduce yourself and be honest. Try to pay attention and do not make her repeat every word. However, you can ask her about anything you aren’t clear on.
8. Speak openly
Speak openly about the meeting and the activities involved in it.
9. Know her restrictions
Make sure you know her restrictions and you remember what you saw on the website. Nobody enjoys being asked again about something he/she already stated.
10. Respect the personal hygiene
Make sure you respect the personal hygiene tips. A shower before the meeting is highly recommended. You should also consider trimming your finger and toenails, shaving and brushing your teeth.
11. Be punctual
Remember she is a female! Women don’t like waiting so be sure you are at least ten minutes earlier. Compliments are a good way of winning her sympathy.
12. Money upfront
Make sure you understood well the policy considerations, especially those concerning the payment. Don’t forget escort services are just like any other services which require an amount of money.
13. Be yourself, but don’t be rude
Escorts have dignity so being rude to them is not a good idea. If you want a smooth meeting, make sure you control what you say. I am not saying you should make a list and repeat it when you are with her. Just be yourself, but don’t be rude to her, be careful to what you are saying. This is a decisive factor in how the meeting goes.
14. Cancel the meeting if something came up
If you changed your mind or you are not able to meet her anymore, make sure you call her several hours before and politely cancel the meeting. Tell her the reasons and ask her if she’s available some other time. Cancel early and never plan a meeting and give her the guy!
15. Have fun
Lastly but not leastly, have fun! If you are a gentleman she will surely appreciate you and you can even build a strong friendship. If the meeting goes well, you might want to contact her again so you have to make sure she will want to see you again.
Remember these are only few of the tips for a perfect meeting! The most important is to be yourself, to follow your instincts and to be positive! Everything else comes naturally.